First time commenting so please forgive me. Although using marshmallows on your stakes gives a visual clue that you’re about to poke your eye out, try getting some solid golf balls & a drill bit close to the diameter of your stakes. Put tape on the bit about 1 inch from the tip, drill into the center of the golf ball up to the tape. Then slide one onto each stake. You can put a drop of glue to hold it if you don’t get a tight fit. Also, since The dude has moved to the “Great White North” where cannabis is legal everywhere…& a citizen now, don’t you think Parliament there should consider changing the country’s name’s spelling to a double “N” up there. Cannada seems so much more appropriate! You can do it Dude!